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Tuesday, April 14, 2015

A Long Winded Post that is a Good Example of Why High School Sucks

There is one very important fact about me that I think everybody needs to understand: I have a boyfriend. I have a boyfriend whom I love more than life itself and I would never, EVER do anything to hurt him or lose him or even remotely jeopardize my relationship with him. There is not a single person on this Earth that is worth losing him over. Which brings me to my next point.

I have a friend. I have a very good friend who I have been friends with since I moved here. I can easily say that he's my best friend, and because of that fact, I tend to spend a lot of time with him at school. I mean, I don't really have a LOT of friends, so I might as well hang out with the ones I do, right? Now don't get me wrong, I'm not with this friend every waking minute of the school day, and even when we are spending time together IT IS AS FRIENDS. Anyway, that's my spiel about my best friend. Next point...

There is someone at this school that has a romantic interest in my friend, and that's great. I mean, everybody likes someone, right?!? Naturally. Now, this individual has never spoken to me before, but I have it on good authority that this person talks about me. A lot. And not in a positive manner anyway. A lot of this has to do with the fact that this person likes my friend. He liked this person as well, until clinginess became an issue. And then, when he found out that this person was being rude to me and talking about me, he told said individual to leave him alone. (Gotta give him props for having priorities: his friends). He told the individual that whatever "flirtationship" they had needed to stop, because it was upsetting a lot of people, the individual included. SOMETHING IMPORTANT FOR YOU ALL TO UNDERSTAND: I did NOT ask my friend to say any of that. His flirtationship with that individual did NOT bother me or make me jealous. I mean, obviously, I stood by my friend's side when he was getting tired of everything that was going on. But now, I am the bad guy. And that brings me to my next point.

I have another friend who is up my butt and telling me I need to work things out with the aforementioned individual, because hanging out with my best friend is UPSETTING her and so that means I am "wrong" for doing it. WHICH IS RIDICULOUS. And so now it has come to my knowledge that they are both saying less than nice things about me, and it seems like now my best friend is ALSO upset with me and I DIDN'T EVEN DO ANYTHING WRONG SO SOMEBODY HELP ME OUT, MAN BECAUSE I DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON OR WHAT TO DO.

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